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Three Ways to Influence Others
By Kevin

My son was not buying the rules I set out for running a smoother family.

My supervisor wasn't taking my ideas seriously enough to make an impact in our company.

My relationship with others began to crumble and I couldn't figure out why.

These relationships in my personal, professional, and family mattered, in my day-to-day life.

I've been there and struggled quite a bit. I really wanted to great raise good young men. I wanted to lend my ideas and experience to strengthen our company. I want to improve relationships with those I know, love, and care about deeply.

The desire to improve in my life drove me to learn how I could improve my influence with those I care about the most. I focused on those who have played a major role in influencing an entire culture. movement, and individual relationships. Those leaders included Mother Theresa, Martin Luther King, and Anthony Robbins, among others.

What I found to be true was how these pioneers shared three distinct qualities:

  • They teach us how to think.
  • They challenge us.
  • They modeled the way.

Mother Theresa was a physically small individual in the world. Martin Luther King spoke and lead others with his Dream. Tony Robbins has core principles to which he shares with millions throughout the world.

The three things you can do to influence others?

1. Be clear about what's important in your leadership style - at home, at work, and in your relationships.

2. Be willing to challenge others that you really care about - they'll take the feedback, because they know you are coming at them in a caring approach.

3. Be confident in leading by example - they hear what you say, they'll believe what you do even more.

These seemingly simple ways of influencing others will greatly improve the role you play in your personal, professional, and impact with those you care most about.

Now go...make an impact on those you care most about.

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